Some fish, some ships

Song for Today: Angels on the moon - Thriving Ivory


Thursday night, after having dinner with a girl friend, I was later in my room, drenching in coffee, cigarettes and work.
Sounds like Carrie's line in Sex and the city. The only difference is that she was a fabulous writer living in a flawless fiction, I am a little girl living in the real world.

I hate writing. Yet I have a blog with more than 100 posts. In average, I upload one post per week, while I don't even read my Psychology book more than one time per 2 weeks.

A long statement caught my attention few days back.

"Everybody is selfish. You love somebody else for an either clear or unclear but definitely selfish reason. You love your partner to expect the same thing back. You love your Friends to avoid loneliness."

I am pretty sure i got that from a comedy, but somehow it's not funny.

In my everyday life I keep the routine of meeting at least one friend per day. I am not sure that if its just me or it is me who is afraid of loneliness like the statement says. If the statement is sound, then I am really selfish.

Whatever.


A survey question regarding to love relationship and friendship


If you met someone who knows you, shares the same value as you, are you more willing to take the person as a friend or would you wanna drive this ship further?

See, this is a complicated question. The basic instinct may lead to a choice of the latter, however most tend to settle for the first after certain degree of consideration. Because in a ruthless real world like this, friendship weights much lighter on one's shoulder while relationship is hundred times more fragile.


I know nothing about the real world.